Saturday, September 25, 2010

Lazy Days

I am having one of those days. I want to get stuff done, but I really have no energy to do anything. Lazy days...winter must be coming, I need to hibernate! And the head cold that wants to take over is not helping me with my energy level at all.

A decided to be an complete jerk via text...would it be bad to block his number??? I am at the point where I just don't want to deal with him or his crap - I am getting spoiled with the drama-free zone I created for myself. They moved the entry of judgment back to October 20, so another month before I can just let the state deal with it all.

I walked a portion of The Freedom Trail before coming home last week. Boston really is a pretty town, LOUD, but pretty. I got just past the north end, Revere's House and it was starting to get dark so I turned around to walk back to my car. Strange town after dark by myself...I thought it would be best to be at my car by dark and if I was well on my way to the hotel that would be really good considering my night-blindness. :)

15 comments:

Misses M said...

Boo! Judgment delays are not fair!

Dare I even ask what he's done this time? I mean, after the candy bar story I know I could be opening a large can of worms... ;)

Do whatever you need to do to keep him out of the no drama zone!

kc said...

Do you prefer your worms fried or baked??? At this point they are way over done so, raw is not an option my friend :)

Two weeks ago I allowed him to short me money so he could buy the cub scout uniform...did I write about that??? No uniform was bought...he spent that money on gas or whatever. He then goes on to tell me that since he has Doodles so much he is going to short me child support again this week....to which I respond it does not work that way, unless he is going to pay for daycare on the weeks he has him. "Not unless you find one for under $50" SHAH, like that could ever happen!!! I went on to remind him that daycare costs for a month are $400 and he gives me $200 - I still have to pay for lunch money, sports, cub scouts, treats, and anything else that child may want or NEED. He doesn't short the mother of his daughter, but he thinks it is ok to short me because I will take care of it. That is unfair and complete BS.

He then goes on after a short break...to blah blah blah I have had him 6 out of the past 8 weeks - cut to the part where it sounds like it is putting him out. I told him fine I would find an overnight sitter at one of the colleges around here and he will see Doodles every other weekend or not at all. BACKTRACK city...I like to have him and will have him when you travel. Damn straight because its in my divorce papers, if I can ever get the judgment entered!!!

Just Stupid, Drama BS. My Drama Free Zone has been infiltrated!!!

Misses M said...

Augh! What a bum!

Misses M said...

Okay, so let me get this straight: you expect the father of your child to be involved with the child's life AND help support the child financially? And you expect him to take on ALL of that responsibility and not feel inconvenienced by it?! Like, you think he should enjoy spending time with his son or something? How unreasonable of you!

I can't imagine why you want this divorce... :P

kc said...

there are times when I am nothing but an unreasonable bitch. I am ok with that though. Seriously ok with that.


OOOO wait until I write about the email from the teacher! Then you will really find out about me. UGH

Misses M said...

Uh oh... did the teacher feel the wrath?

kc said...

HA! lets just say I corrected her on a few truths about my life.

Misses M said...

LOL... the truth tends to sting a little... at least for the person on the receiving end...

*cough* JOAN *cough*

It sounds like the teacher asked for it.

kc said...

BAH! You may judge for yourself, I sent you the email ;)

kc said...

I miss Mim...where are my Mim stories LMAO

Misses M said...

The stories are brewing... she asked for a Thanksgiving cooking assignment. Joan cannot cook.

kc said...

hehehe...I cannot wait!!!

Fruit Salad -- you don't cook it and who the hell messes up cutting up fruit?? and if she wants to get creative she can add marshmellows and whip cream - no egg products to worry about her adding to the cooking project :)

Misses M said...

LOL... I guess I've never mentioned her tremor. Her hands shake like she has Parkinsons even though she doesn't. Nothing helps with the tremor... the doctors say it won't get better, but it won't get so bad that she can't take care of herself. Joan actually makes a decent sweet potato/apple side dish that I think would be a safe bet. I don't know about anything else, though. The problem is simple... she doesn't use salt or pepper, so her cooking tastes like @$$.

kc said...

ask her to bring ice cream for the birthday cake??? other than that, a can of corn LOL

Foursons said...

We loved Boston. Awesome city. Minus the hookers peeing under the street lights of course.